What about a square instead of a conjunction NN/moon?? The only way I see this playing out is that he does seem very concerned with my well-being; hell say things like, careful, dont slip! if were walking somewhere wet, or drive safely! things like that, but I never feel overwhelmed or criticized, just cared about. Is it bad? LOL. She's the only person I've been close to for years and years.My natal Venus is conj my NN as well though - so that might be why. In the past, I might not have disagreed with this, however, based on some of the recent experiences I've had, I don't think it's ENTIRELY correct that is someone conjuncts your SN they are draining you and you are staying around them because it's comfortable. Wow Lili Idk what to do about the situation. Number 157 I think, Its in my 6H (10 deg Cancer) square my mothers Lilith, inconjunct my own Lilith and sextile my Venus. Maybe were just bringing something up for each other. He can leave anytime he doesnt like it . chart overlay showing NN in 5th house double whammy Henry and Meghan? People born during the same few months have their north node conjunct with each other, so this is not . The music Bolero by Ravel would be the feeling of your relationship, Apollo conj the NNThe NN person would adore the Apollo person. If I send our synastry chart and explain the situation could you tell me what you see thats relevant? I know someones Pluto and Lilith is conjunct my north node. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Dawn at http://theinnerwheel.com says that nodal contacts to the MC/IC is a big indicator of a long-term partnership. My peace was when Id run away. I should have this tattooed on my chest, along with What are the orbs?. However, he does require me to learn and think in a different way when I'm around him. Maybe it's an opportunity for NN to learn how the world might demonize their NN's energy, how to be it anyway? I hate to say that it lasts forever. If not, it would be a super compatibility aspect imo. I do charts for the people who want them. Orchus conj the NNThe Orchus person would make the relationship about a journey of overcoming. That means a great deal to me! Very nice! Synastry Aspects - Free Interpretations: Sun synastry aspects, Moon synastry aspects, Mercury synastry aspects, Venus synastry aspects, Mars synastry aspects, Jupiter synastry aspects, Saturn synastry aspects, Uranus synastry aspects, Neptune synastry aspects, Pluto synastry aspects . I could see Pluto being strongeryes! Forgot to say an exact NN conjunction degree with my partners NN. My Chiron is also conjuncts her Moon and Mercury squares her Saturn. hey. It is an intimate connection, no doubt; neither are planetary energies, and both are derived from the moon (unless we're discussing asteroid Lilith..). The MC conjunct the NNthe MC person will work in a career or have a social position that will help the NN person find his dreams. I'm not entirely sure that someone who has planets on your SN is always draining or a negative influence in which you are stuck. The Mercury brings the mind/intellect/communication to the NN person. This theme will be brought by the person to the relationship. If so, squares dont show up unless you live with people, usually, so friends would not have the intensity that these hard things would manifest that much. I can only imagine how you react to people who put their planets on your NN/Pluto! our suns conjunct I had a feeling that was the case, but couldnt find any kind of source on the web for this kind of info. It is just super time consuming to do an excellent job for people and I wont do less lol I mean can that energy be managed or is it always a deal breaker? My Lilith conjuncts his South Node exact, and there are more aspects with Lilith, i just don't remember them now, since i do not have a chart in front of me. This aspect can make for heated passion. Ive also read that it is unrequited love in the Venuss behalf in this synastry . Currently you have JavaScript disabled. Thank you for your sweet words. Will definitely be checking into your website every now and then. Well, you have to think about that energy and if it is a deal breaker for YOU. 4) if trine or sextile is exact, will it be felt as strong as conjunct? My moon is the meat, in the opposition sandwich. But when you get to your NN.. will be intense! The problem with Lilith you never know which one each person is talking about.. BML black moon Lilith.Fishy BML is conjunct my sun, moon, mercury.It's exact on my moon/mercury.I wish I has an answer, idk how exactly it has taken into effect.but for sure, I've been obsessed. I kind of feel like when I am the planet or angle person aspecting their NN I WANT to pursue the relationship and have something develop with them while when they aspect my north node, I don't feel that attached Posts: 949From: the atmanRegistered: Mar 2012. Hence, these two aren't planetary bodies. If you have this aspect, then listen carefully because this is fated and signifact aspect with tremendous impact on yo. Depends on aspects to other planets. I am not trying to rip anyone off. How does it play? Any relationship is all about hearts. This person s purpose is in life with your career and you feel very comfortable with each other like old friends. I think it works in a similar way for me. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. Now, I would avoid a relationship with ANY bad asteroid or planet conjunct the North Node. Sorry, but I just stumbled upon this article and Im very curious! The past life karma has to be fulfilled in some way, to grow the SN person up, so the south node person will eventually outgrow the relationship with the moon person the way child grows up and leaves a maternal relationship, so it couldnt last as a romantic relationship. The NN person would have a goal that the SN person may help him meet. The Eris person could harass the NN person when the NN person tries to find his life purpose. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Not alone, S. You would have to have some really bad things in synastry for that conclusion to be made like Atropos, Aphophis, Sado, Nessus etc. I cant find it anywhere but my POF conjunct their NN exact. This feels so icky that I dont think a relationship would progress very far. I have never said that before or felt that way before and I dont know what prompted me to say that or feel that way but I did. my true node 1055 taurus My friend lost her husband 9 years ago in a car accident. I am married and so is he . trine sun, and a few others. Join and then put your chart up in the Personal readings forum. my NN-They make me feel like I can never compete with them. Isn't the individual that has Lilith makes the planet or NN feel that they are hard to Figure out or grasp? YES Saturn in good aspect is a kind of strength brought to the other person like the strength of a big, strong oak tree! Reddit is pretty cool as an app and I really recommend the subreddit r/astrology ! This video is about Nodes in synastry. his feeling was so big for me but i didnt feel the same way. Nessus conj the NNthe person will bring you abuse, Pholus conj he NNthe person will bring all sorts of explosive outbursts. and also others not involving node: I think this is entertained because everyone is out there looking for their straight-line "soulmate". What are your thoughts regarding north nodes in synastry? If a person BRINGS a planet or asteroid to the North Node person, the planet or asteroid becomes a theme of the relationship.Hence, please look carefully at that which conjuncts the North Node in synastry. My cousin Sun is on my SN, her Moon is square Node. This caught my attention. North Node conjunction Juno, North Node conjunction Sun ( 4.73) If a person has a planet or asteroid on your NN, they will bring the flavor of that planet or asteroid TO the relationship. I am so glad you are here and thank you so much for sharing. even if it was only an asteroid (psyche). Also there is a feeling of comfort, security within the relationship. You have to be honest or life is not worthwhile. Was this true in your case? The NN in synastry is amazing. May be difficult to balance things out. Awesome person! In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. And didn't look back on it. My mean, critical, obnoxious aunt has Mars conjunct my Moon in Scorpio. The other point is the South Node (). What do you think of vertex conj sado? There's something "off" about the relationship at some point and I want to break free (or they do, or both). Why dont you register for my Forum and start a thread on NN in synastry. At one point I cut the contact with those people and I didn't look back on it. In synastry, Lilith brings an untamed, wild sexual energy, feelings of obsession, and intense, transformative interactions. list go on! The Sado/Uranus person would fight and mess the mind up of the Sun person such that a relationship could not work. I liked them but it was very limited. You and he may bond over the betrayal the Sedna person had but this would not mean THIS person would be betray you, I think. The most recent one that I have met I have actually felt is PUSHING ME TOWARD my NN from his Mars conjuncting my SN. The persons adaptation would be the variable that could change <3. I don't know maybe it's just me. Posts: 610From: PolandRegistered: Jan 2013, I don't know about North Node but South Node are like that. She moved in with the boyfriend and he tried to choke her. I would feel very oppressed and as if I was in prison. If a person has a planet or asteroid on your NN, they will bring the flavor of that planet or asteroid TO the relationship. I appreciate you getting back to me. Er . I have my saturn and descendant conjunct his north node, sun and mercury. This is a theory which someone I know is studying. I think it also depends on the level of one's evolution, so to speak. It would be much better cuz Valentine is the best form of love and this person would explode with that and that would be amazing! You dont live with her, though. But you'r right there doesn't seem to be a pattern .. My 5th house Lilith (I),h21, is trine my ascendant exact opposite my pholus in the 11th house. It definetely is confusing im with you on that and your right about how prominent lilith (i) which is h21 in ASTRO.com. Eris sq NN has to be close(2-3 orb) and it is a rather small aspect so prolly not that significant. If you are just dating or something like this, you may be OK but for a deeper relationship, I , personally, cannot see it working. She said that I have no common sense and attacks me lots of times. I do not see how this relationship can last. Posts: 619From: Island of SirensRegistered: Jul 2013, In synastry, Lilith is definitely like pluto, i noticed, lots of obsession, control, jealousy,revenge but on a POSITIVE note Lilith can bring an amazing profound connection that is unexplainable between two people, like a sort of fascination. xoxoo. When we were children she was my role model. Since it was a relative, I had little choice in the matter However, if this were a current It really is refreshing. . Our northnodes are both squaring too. It is is close( up to 4 degrees) your pain could work against his life purpose, Do you have thoughts about Mars conjunct Nessus in synastry? Jupiter and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart. my jupiter/uranus sextile to his sun However Yes it's been hard for me to let go o f the people who I aspected their north node. Is that Chiron? Please somebody steer me right if so. Their natal Sado/Uranus squares my sun, and their natal Nessus is opposite my sun. we also have a double chiron moon conjunction. my south node is in leo and my north node in aquarius. He was neptune Im NN. She thinks that she is on the same leaugue as Beyonce even though she uses everyones credit and gets government assistance despite making the national average salary. But you're reluctant to associate with people who touch your NN cause it's unfamilar territory and it takes us out of comfort zone.. I really am fascinated with it, too . I think he attracts sadists to him. Excellent. I assume this is synastry. In Sumerian and Jewish mythology, she is associated with female demons. With North Node, me being the planet person, it usually goes well but again, if it feels like they're too far away from their NN, I don't like being around them for long, cause it's like my energy is being drained. Your relationship will be very very passionate. I've had it twice. i wonder if anyone could tell me if there is any chance in this relationship, so far the biggest love of my life. I've also been the planets/angle person aspecting the north node of another. The NN person has a purpose to have a relationship with the DSC person. Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. Or will it remain my fantasy? The North Node is the theme of ones life. It has another name I think. Lilith in synastry generally speaking produces a very powerful seductive lure between the two but there can also an erratic or rebellious quality to it. Hence, I will tell you the synastry aspects that I think make for unhappiness and why, of course. my saturn(7th house ruler) conjuncts his north node and his venus 0 degress! It would be a child like kind of bond. When you look at a synastry or natal chart, you may also see the North Node being referred as Lunar node, Dragon's Head or True Node. If it is a romantic relationship, sex has an addictive quality. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 No doubt Ive hurt him a lot, but (due to other aspects) he has also hurt me. North Node conjunction Venus My NN conj his Neptune 3 degrees This can happen if you are born close in time to each other. I m the planet: I feel compelled to do something about it and pursue thing with the person. I know how it feels to have Pluto conjunct NN. I respectfully disagree with this. I hope I can do this when I tell you about my own life. You both feel admiration for each other. We met years ago and we are thinking of getting back together. Thank you. What was that scenario like if you know? It seems that I'm being stimulated in my needed direction by that which he fights to repress in himself in Pisces--the Lilith which is all-knowing and yet unsure, a Lilith who is nebulous and mutable, sensitive and impressionable and in some way has been made to feel wrong for being so. Thank you. Will this happen to you? I feel like it goes one of two ways - either I am very close to them and like them a lot - or - I feel disappointed because they are not living up to my expectations. you dont actually know anything about that friendship. My Saturn square his Nodes, is that very bad? And omg yes I can definetely see the NN oppurtunity to learn whatever asteroid or planet is touching this sensitive point to them. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. What if someone Saturn trined the other persons sun, ascendant and Saturn? North Node trine Jupiter ( 6.32 ) My sun conjucnts his northnode, while his venus oppose my northnode. We have a nice connection and get each other. My Moon squares my Nodes and if my Moon isn't aspected in synastry, forget it (but then again, it is the Moon, an essential part of the chart). As I said, I watch Nessus and Sado like a hawk. 10 planets from Sun to Pluto and the North Node in detail. I dont know but I would be aware because awareness is always good. What do make of It? Sorry about that! youre way too black and white. Many people would, but not everyone, I dont think. the moon person can feel bulldozed. his SN conjunct my moon (my cancer ascendant ruler) in 10th house Or would it still be bad? I did not enjoy it much. And my venus is conjunct his north node. She called me a gollira thinking that Im all that and said that my hair is horrible and nappy, I dont have shit in life, and that no man would want me. I would love to meet you on there! So what would it mean if my NN is conjuct someone elses NN to the exact degree in scorpio? North Node trine Moon ( 4.48) The IC conjunct the NN-the IC person will give deep emotional support to the NN person, which will help the NN reach his dreams. His NN to my ascendant and his NN to my MC. My Moon/Venus also trine/sextile his Nodes although not the strongest aspects but does it help with the Saturn square? The Ascendant conjunct the NNthe Ascendant person will help the NN person reach his dreams. So Sun will offer benefits related to puratatva (below ground matters) when placed in the eighth house Ruling Zodiac Sign: Scorpio The Sun in the . This is where the North Node comes in; it marks the path a person can take to . How will this play out is it good or bad? That is my advice. I much prefer Mars conjunct SN. I have a Forum if you would like to post your charts. I have been the subject of family abuse since my birth from my mother. How differently would this playa out? 1 degree orb in Libra, What would it be if MY Nessus conjuncts his moon. Since I have a Mars-Venus conjunction. I have read how North Node connections are signs of star-crossed lovers. My father had very high ideals for me, I was told, and when I was who I am he was very disappointed. TIA. Altenatively, there might be an age difference of approximately 18 years between you (or any multiple of 18). Check this out and let me know. I haven't used Lilith in Synastry because sometimes with two charts there is already alot to deal with. I much prefer my moon square mars since every man I have been attracted to has mars in Virgo and seems to be able to give me more space. That other person also had his maniac conjunct my moon pffff. What about mercury conjunct north node? I love getting these comments too, so please write again when you would like! However, if it is, it will show up. I don't know what happened but I'm not that attracted to Cancer energy anymore. YOU are the most important person to me. Thank you so much, No Twist. Re: the question, just above, about Mars conjunct NN synastry. In the natal chart, she represents wild female sexuality and the anger that comes from being denied, rejected or cast out. North Node conjunction Lilith (5.32) Hello! No, M. the charts take me a LONG time lol Hey, Ami. I would not want a persons Saturn that intense on my personal planets, but that would be my opinion <3, Hi. Saturn energy is like a stern parent. thanks for sharing your knowledge amiann! But yes, it is quite obsessive, immediate past life scenario - he was my husband and loved me very much, but i didn't. There may be a lot of make-ups and break ups. Moon-South Node: this is an aspect which can guarantee a very deep emotional relationship. Tell me which person was which. This is not your fault, Love. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Posts: 46869From: Saturn next to CharmainecRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 They truly point to our soul's evolution. You are good thats exactly what I suspect.. People judging.. ive done this, ive helped and they turned against me. I've had people aspect my north node. I am here if you want to post your charts and ask questions.Nessus relationships start off as heaven but end as hell. When I am the NN it seems to be much more difficult for me. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. I have Lilith quite prominent and I do quite identify with her so I was more obsessed but it switched back and forth. I do not change my mind based on harassment,as you know. How would you interpret this Ami? I think that would be a soul mate sign. How would his vertex influence NNode? NN opposite Ascendant. What orbs do you allow at the North node to capture ant conjunctions? The Mars conjunct North Node synastry aspect indicates that there is a strong sense of magnetism in the relationship. the lilith may enjoy not giving the moon person what they want and have no problem over-asserting their own will. Synastry? Notify me of follow-up comments by email. There will be a child to child kind of wonderful feeling between you. My bf and I both have lilith square moon natally. Pluto conj the NN there will be all kinds of primal passion. I told him that didnt make sense and he said it doesnt matter you still made me believe we were actually following through with it which put me in debt with him. Idk. This is kind of a brain teaser. The psychopaths Mars is conjunct my NN (2 degree orb). Some call you when they need something of you and you wont hear them again. The theme of the relationship was pain.I did not know astrology at the time. This is mistake. with the guy im interested in my venus/DSC conjuncts his NN/Pluto/DSC.its love, his NN also trines my ASC and my sun/moon midpoint conjuncts his NN as well, with me being the planet person i feel extremely compelled to love him and take care of him and have his back on anything, but i do get a sense that his not very experienced in his NN department so things like getting to know him deeply is taking a slow pace, very slow pace lol but he expresses his love for me nonthless, with my ex we had NN squared synastry and after a couple years i outgrew him and our relationship got too comfortable where i wanted to explore new horizons again, the love is still there, but i was never IN love, he"ll always be very special to me but his just not what my NN needs, SN synastry too comfortable for me, not exciting enough. Thank you very much for answering If Nessus conjuncts Vesat, Nessus would be used for good, though, such as helping victims of abuse. However, with time, this is more of a fighting/fighting aspect i.e lets tear each others necks off. Other times she can be a pain. I am sorry. Juno conj the NNthe person will bring you all the best traits of a loyal wife, Vesta conj the NNthe person will bring you devotion, Pallas conj the NNthe person will bring you wisdom, Uranus conj the NNthe relationship will have a lot of ups and downs in strange ways. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. xox, They would bully you and overpower you, Tina, The Nessus/Sun would be a power play and the Nessus would win. If the conjunction is opposite Amor, the person may struggle with his own love nature, versus his abuse nature( and we all have one). Mars/Venus conjunction is just attraction, so does not really tell us about emotional compatibility, Are the squares also taken into account? too much feels like a drag, but each person is different in how much Saturn suits them. Both their natal Sado and Sun/Nessus exact conjunction, oppose my natal moon, in a sandwiching effect. If we have this,we can overcome a lot, Hi Ami, happy belated holidays and New Year . The North Node is the theme of one's life. Not sure about this. I find it hard to manage my own website sometimes lol xoxo, Omg. My first boyfriend was a Cancer, too. Posts: 1167From: New York, New York, USARegistered: Nov 2014. His NN opposing your ASC may be such that his purposes and goals in life may go against your basic walk through life.There may be a pull between this.Let me make it practical. Hes asking i pay money now so theres definitely a lot of hate going on now and idk. If they have been off track in their life or in the direction that their soul wants to go, an encounter, this connection, this relationship will highlight that for them. Also, his eros is conjunct my descendant. But I wonder how it plays out. Posts: 16From: ChicagoRegistered: Nov 2014. Anyway, sorry about the long comment but Id love to hear your feedback! I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. Id be curious to know. Alas, such is life and such is denial. try that and get back to me. to date they have embodied some of the chariklo tendencies, in fact they came into my life supporting me to deal with a massive life change, they gave been compassionate, consistent and supportive.